Waiting for good work to be noticed and rewarded on its own rarely works. Asking directly, plainly, and with real evidence, is uncomfortable, and it is also the single move with the strongest evidence behind it. The discomfort is real. It is not a reason to skip the conversation.
Why not asking is the expensive option
Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever's research on negotiation behaviour, running back more than two decades now, found something worth taking seriously regardless of who it applies to. People who treat a first number, an offer, a starting salary, a title, as final rather than as an opening position pay for it for years afterward, because every later raise is typically calculated as a percentage of an earlier one. A small gap early compounds into a much larger one later, quietly, without a single obvious moment where it happened.
The finding has moved over time, and it is worth stating plainly rather than as an old fact treated as current. The underlying behaviour, though, not asking, remains one of the costliest defaults in almost any career, for anyone who defaults to it.
Stop treating it as a bold move
Part of what makes this hard is treating negotiation as an exception, something only confident people do, reserved for a special occasion. It works better treated as an ordinary, expected step that happens whenever a number is on the table, not a risk taken by people with unusual nerve.
That reframe changes the emotional weight of it considerably. You are not demanding something extra. You are doing the normal thing that goes with any offer or review.
What to bring into the room
Bring specific evidence, not general confidence. Two or three concrete, dated examples of impact carry more weight than a broad sense that you have had a good year, because they give the other side something concrete to act on rather than something to simply take your word for.
Timing matters too. The strongest moment is usually not the anniversary of your start date. It is closer to a point where something has just been delivered, or a budget or planning cycle is genuinely open. Asking before that window exists rarely fails because of your case. It fails because there is nowhere for the answer to go yet.
Where to start
Pick a real, upcoming conversation, a review, a one on one, a moment after a project just landed, and prepare one sentence that states plainly what you are asking for. Not a build up. The actual number or the actual title, stated once, clearly, followed by your two or three examples.
Say it once. Do not talk yourself out of the silence that follows.
What stays yours is judging the room, whether this is genuinely the right cycle, and how this particular manager tends to respond to a direct ask. What this gives you is the case and the timing, which is what most people actually get wrong.
There is a specific way to phrase the actual ask so it sounds like a normal, confident request rather than either an apology or a demand, and it is worth working out in advance rather than in the moment.